So, this is a clear boundary issue. Your W is 'carrying on' (in whatever form with OM.) She knows you are really unhappy about that and she appears not to really care. Meanwhile, the situation is making you Ill.
On the basis of - you only get to control you and not her - what are you going to do about this?
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
