This is the first time i have asked in a while, figured it was worth a try to get an idea of what i needed to do. I have already told her that i respect whatever she does and just want it to be a smooth transaction. Even though I am sure it wont. I also have stopped asking her to pitch in to the families household bills so she does not feel trapped. I know i mentioned PPD and her but i believe the PPD is at the end of its cycle, or hope so. Time will tell, I think her main reason for no wanting to work on us is because of everything I know and she doesnt trust me. GO FIGURE