Hey Sandi, hope you had a great Christmas 😄

It was very weird having the W round, it didn't feel natural having her in the house. I thought it might make me miss what we had, but it just felt wrong - not sure if that's good or bad....

I've been talking with a girl I met in the pub. She's very shy and there appears to be something there, but she's made me see that there is happiness other than with my W.

One thing I've come to realise is that whenever there is a next woman, she's going to be so lucky to be with me (I know that sounds arrogant), but the lessons I've learned are going to allow me to treat that next woman like a queen.

I do remain very sad that things couldn't work out with my W, but acceptance I believe has been achieved.

Hope you all find some peace during this time.


M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016