Absolutely be friendly and civil but don't reach out. Don't accommodate her unless you truly think it's for your kids' best interest. Go do your own thing.
- m and ww in 30s - s4 - m 11 yrs, t12 -ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM - bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa - 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om