Waywards do come back. First step: LET GO

[SBJ]

skm0619...trust me when I say that I am not one to want to make a woman cry...I truly hope that we are all able to help one another get thru these trying times.

The sad thing is that we know how we feel about our spouses, but they are the ones that are confused. We know what we want out of our marriages, but they are the ones that are confused. Nothing we do or say will have an affect on their confusion. This is something that they will have to figure out on their own. We are just collateral damage in all of this. That is why "WE" need to do the work for ourselves to be the type of man or woman that a spouse would be crazy to leave.

As for how long you can continue to do this and hang on for...only you can answer that, but I hope when that day comes we will find peace in our decision. All of the fine folks here are making this process much easier for me and I hope things ease up for you as well.