Hanging and hoping- seperation edition

[BillyHo]

Thanks for responding.
Bman
Beleive me I want to continue to treat her the way I have always treated her. The thing I don't want is for her to be happy with the way things are. Sure it makes things more comfortable between us but is it working toward something or just making things easy for her while she sees if there is something better out there. If there was a OM it would be much easier for me to know what to do but I don't know that there is.

Jug
I guess what I would really need to do is not be so accomidating. If she asks me to watch the boys only do it if it fits into my plans or because I want to do it. Don't do it just to make her happy.

I enjoy the fact that we are communicating in a friendly and civil way. I am just unsure if I need to pull back or if I just keep on how we are and see if we can build something from there. If I only knew what she wanted in terms of this seperation. It has been 3 days and it doesn't feel like we are seperated at all. We are just living in different houses. I think I know what I need to do but that is the thing that scares me the most. I want to let go but she is making it so hard to do.