I wrote a long update and I lost it....

So I'll keep it short and sweet. Holidays were good and there was no tears for the first time in 8 years. I got a little melancholy, but I got over it. My ex wanted to hang out with me.... with our daughter of course... but you could tell he actually wanted to spend time with me. He even dressed nice and put on cologne and we all went out to dinner. he was upset that I wanted to be home by a certain time to go to the gym. he did call me skinny I almost thought he was going to pay..... but in true ex fashion, he split that bill right down the middle.

The plumber contacted me yesterday. he was at my house. Doing work on the neighbor. he wants to see me. he likes me. Wants to date again. Don was right. ha! Don't know how I feel about this. I told him what turned me off, I came right out with it.

And..... I am ending my 10 week gym/nutrition challenge tomorrow. I'm doing the next challenge. But we did before and after pictures yesterday and I am kind of shocked. I lost 4 lbs, but my body has certainly transformed. I couldn't believe it. I tend to build muscle, and I am actually kind of cut now, but that's why the scale doesn't mean anything. I'll be posting the pics on FB tomorrow. I'm proud of me. Happy for all the new friends I have made.

I've got some great new years eve plans I am looking forward too. All the same people as last year, minus one, lol. I'm going to have a blast and allow myself to drinka nd eat unhealthy things.

Thanks for all the well wishes. I'm doing pretty good. Better than I had thought I was, haha!