I ended up staying in MBR last night anyway. I just went in there and started reading a book while she wasn't in there. When she came back upstairs (probably after a couple of spliffs) , she didn't say anything other than to ask what I was reading.
I need to get reading the Verbally Abusive Relationship, I think.
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18