I do understand my marriage is over my difficulty begins now with making decisions ...
My sister and my mum live 180 miles away from me
My eldest daughter 18 years old and I have never been very close yet she will move with me if I buy a house Near to my mum and my sister where she can keep her horses (free of charge) she almost certainly would not move in with me if I buy a house without land
I have a son who would move with me he too likes the country so he says he would move with me
My second youngest son he says he would like to live up here so he can still see his friends but he would visit me
And my three year old would stay here with mum I do not get the choice to have her live with me
I would see her as and when I travel back from the county approx 180 miles
I work during th day time so I do not get th chance to see my youngest much but because my wife works some nights I do get to spend time with my daughter who I love with all my heart
My room is next to hers if she wakes I normally go to her as I get there first some nights when she wakes she asked to sleep in my bed she and I snuggle in my bed I like the closeness I guess I do not see her much daytimes so I see this as being close to my daughter .
So I am torn between moving closer to my sister and away from my W clean break distance between us so I can move in easier or live closer to my W but in different houses but I can see the kidss and when I like easier
The house down her would be smaller but it is not just about the house size I am trying to make everyone happy and in the process i am so indecisive that I am upsetting my older children as I am not taking a step
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.
