Hanging and hoping- seperation edition

[Bman72]

Hi Billy - I have a cycle going where I am allowing her to do as she pleases because she will do it anyway but then I think it is time I set my limits and give her some tough love and so some days I amready to be tough and other days I am caring and patient - so please keep in the back of your mind that whatever you decide to do - be consistent otherwise it can come across as flaky - so don't get too tough or too soft - just really know how you want it to be for yourself and your kids and then make sure you won't regret it in the long run - I ask myself will the way I treat her help me or hinder me in the long run. We are all still the victims of the emotional roller coaster and so the way we want to handle it changes - you may find in a week or two that you might want to handle it differently again so just keep that in mind before deciding. All the best. J