BillyHo...I am too new to this to give you advice for sure. I hope some of the vets around here will give you some sound advice that will allow you to make the right call. Good luck.
My sitch as far as contact is the opposite of yours...my wife pulled away and stopped calling/texting as much right after BD, but then went totally dark once she moved out, unless it had to do with money or the kids. I hope and pray that things work out for you and your family.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!