She doesn't have a job and we can't afford two places. I am going to ask her to move out and go live with her parents. I am thinking of doing the same and we can keep the kids in the house and switch every week. That's the plan in my head. I really have no clue what she is thinking. You would think if she was so miserable she would have been planning things but I know she hasn't. She might just want to get a divorce right away cause she only cares about herself and she knows she would get money from me, but we definately would have to sell our current house cause I couldn't afford that and afford her with no job.


Me:39
WW: 39
Kids: 11,8,4
Married: 15 years
Together 17 years
PA discovered November 2016
Separated living in same house - ended 1/2017
Separated, kids in house, taking turns staying in house