Your boundaries are your own and I agree with them. I had all kinds of ideas for how your son could be allowed to go to that house but you'll have to use your imagination...

What are your plans for separation?

- m and ww in 30s
- s4
- m 11 yrs, t12
-ilybinilwy ~5/16 + request for OM
- bd 7/16, confirm ea and strongly suspected pa
- 9/16 ww claimed to have broken contact with om