HaWho, you're Christmas sounds very insightful. On the whole it sounded like it went well. Your H really does sound like he is trying to work through...a LOT. Just keep your eyes open and find those ways to validate his efforts. Back to KML's post; sometimes we miss those moments to catch them being "good". It made me realize that, in my own efforts to prove that I don't need anyone and can do it all myself, I often miss the fact that my XH enjoys AOS. And that I should offer WOA. This is a tough thing for some of us independent gals to remember. We need to allow those "boys" to feel like men, and men (are expected to) take care of women (to feel manly). Everyone likes to feel needed. So much more to learn...
M-51 H-54 2D-27 and 25 M-26 yrs Bombshell and IHS 7-29-15 He moved out 10-3-15 D filed 1-27-16 D final 10-27-16
