My WW and I had a discussion, I didn't lose my cool because that doesn't help anyone. My son and the OM son are friends and my son asked to go over to his house and play. I told him no. My WW continues to say that I am taking it out on him and he shouldn't be punished. I told her I have to have boundaries with our family around OM and that is one of them. She didn't like that and said when we are divorced she will allow it. That just aggravates me she thinks everything is fine and goes on as normal. I told her that is a consequence for what she is doing and she should take responsibility. Then somewhere along TJ conversation I said she was a bad mom for what she has done and we haven't talked since. She justifies herself as a good mom cause she goes to their stuff. But she forgets about all the time she is there she is on her phone and forgets about all the nights she goes out. I think it's time we physically separate cause I can't stand her behavior anymore.
Me:39 WW: 39 Kids: 11,8,4 Married: 15 years Together 17 years PA discovered November 2016 Separated living in same house - ended 1/2017 Separated, kids in house, taking turns staying in house