BillyHo...I understand how confusing it is, but from what I have seen, none of it will ever make any sense to us. I am going thru the same thing you are and it totally stinks.
In my case she wanted me around her during Christmas, but after the festivities were over, she was back out the door.
Only time will tell, but as someone on the boards keeps reminding me...when/if she ever decides she wants to come back home, you will know it for sure.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!