Hey Jug,

It was a very good stress free day. Ws text was asking if she left something in the closet. The weird thing is she knows she totally cleared everything out of the closet when she left. I try not to mind read but it almost seems like she is now the one who is afraid to "let go".

The movie was ok for my youngest. The only thing he didn't like was that it was pretty long.

W came to my house this morning so I could have the boys overnight. She was going to keep them since I didn't have a sitter but she offered to come early in the morning so they could stay the night. That was nice of her.

I read through all of the sitch on here where the W is spewing and just diwn right mean to the LBS. I look at my W and she is anything but mean and nasty toward me. I am glad that she doesn't lash out at me but I think that makes it that much more confusing. I just wish I knew if she was softening or just trying to keep the peace. She isn't getting anything from me now so what is it she's is holding on to. She wanted to get out and now that she is "free" it seems she doesn't know what to do with herself.


Me:42 W:37
M:18 T:23
3S: 4,7,10
EA 6/16
ILYBNILWY 7/16
9/16 separate BR
10/16 Discernment Counseling
She's moving out 1/17