Hi Altair, I think it is positive that your H asked to be kept in the loop....however...

Try to accept that your own challenges are yours to deal with and process just now. Lean on the support of others and oblige your H with minimal updates as needed. I wouldn't rely on him for much in the way of practical support, but occasionally keep him up to date if he has asked for this.

If he actually offers support - ie: to take you somewhere - you can have a think about whether that works for you.

Now then, do put him on to the back burner for a few days and try to relax and enjoy your trip. I know you must feel concerned about your health, and hope you will confide in others and seek support from them if you need it.

Xx


T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus