HaWho, it looks like you had a pretty decent holidays! Considering the MLC stuff, LOL. Thanks for sharing your thoughts and your experience. You have a close view of an MLC with your H. It truly helps to understand what they really go through. I'm sure I could make some of the observations now with my H, that I'm aware of the whole MLC deal, LOL. Both of his parents are deceased now, so I'm guessing he had to deal with whatever unresolved issues some other way. I just hope he will have it figured out and make peace with his parents in his mind. It just so fascinating to me to observe people going through this unresolved issues in such a way that they don't realize they hurt their families in the process. I think I had a brief moment of MLC myself, but I knew to snap out of it before I destroyed my M. Even though, I think it did have an effect a few years later... as my H remembered that, and said that we should have ended the M back then...

I hope your travel back home is very smooth and you have a great New Years!


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state