Had a nice day today. Worked and then took the boys out to see the new Star Wars movie. They loved it and so did I.

The one thing that has me scratching my head is that even though W has been moved out for 2 days on both days she has called and tm me several times a day. I guess I had this picture in my head of her moving and us just not talking at all. I make sure not to contact her but she seems to have gotten comfortable contacting me every day.

I am listening to No More Mr Nice Guy audiobook the last couple of days. A lot of what is in there I can relate to. I am most definitely a people pleaser when it comes to my wife. I realize now that I need to put my needs first and to not kiss her butt as much especially in the current sitch. She wants a man that will take charge not a pushover. Over the years I lost sight of that and lost track of who I am as a man.


Me:42 W:37
M:18 T:23
3S: 4,7,10
EA 6/16
ILYBNILWY 7/16
9/16 separate BR
10/16 Discernment Counseling
She's moving out 1/17