The other thing is because of your different love languages I also see issues.
Your H does not want to be touched and has low T. He would rather buy you gifts because that is HIS LL. The fact that it is not yours has not even occurred to him.
You can only recover your marriage by building a new marriage and both of you have to be all in on that endeavor. Right now it seems you are the only one interested in doing that.
I would listen to Sandi's advice event though that sounds counter intuitive. That is what DB is all about.
