Waywards do come back. First step: LET GO

[SBJ]

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As we can adopt these principals into our lives, we will attract quality people that understand them too. What the LBS cannot see in their own fog is that they (their healthy and balanced self) really don't want a person that could cheat, abandon, and hurt them. They want a person that loves them, respects them, and is willing to do the hard work so save the M as well.

So there is only one option. Let go. Let go of people that our toxic. Let them back in your life when they can show you the love and commitment you deserve.

Blu

[b]So, as your title says, the only way we will heal ourselves is to detach and let go of our unrecognizable spouse? I guess that is the hardest part for us that said we would never leave our spouse/family. We, the LBS, are the ones that took our vows totally serious and would do anything in our power to keep our families together.

So the letting go of them is totally 180* of what is right and just to us and our values. I guess we need to suck it up and just do what works...right?

After a relatively good holiday weekend with her around, I can see how good things could be, but I have no real idea of how she views things. I guess letting go would mean that I wouldn't have an idea unless she decides to tell me in the future.