She moved out...now the work begins...Part 4

[SBJ]

She already knows that you love her and you want her back home. So, I am going to suggest that you not say a word to her about this.

The MLCer, while in crisis, is only worried about money and having fun. They worry about money because they need it in order to have their fun, whatever that may be. She doesn't want to run short so that's why that's the only thing on her mind right now.

Write down that you love her and then tear up the note.

Again, I know that she knows how I feel...I just feel odd that I haven't talked to her about our R in a long time. It is totally 180 from what I would usually do, so I know how I should lean, but it is hard.

As for what she is doing, from what I can tell nothing has changed in her life other than where she is living and me. I am just going by what my kids have said...I have honestly tried to stay tuned out of what she is doing.

I do miss her and would welcome her back if she'd do the work she needs to do. I will continue to work for myself. I saw something this morning that struck a chord. It said, True love isn't always romantic...It's a choice to love each other for better or worse, richer or poorer, and in sickness or health.