Because in his book, it wasn't just an emotional affair. It was if he didn't "catch me", then I would have had a physical affair with OM.
And you agree with this? Is it really what you think? Is it still what you think?
No, I don't agree with it, but how I can't convince him of that. I already took the first step in having an inappropriate relationship with OM. I never in a million years thought I'd talk to another guy and play with fire like that, but I did, so who's to say one night of drinking and being in the wrong place/situation, it wouldn't have happened? I know its all "what-ifs", but in his mind, it was headed in that direction and only ended because we got caught.
