he changed the subject and told everyone who knows this other girl he went out with two nights ago that she text him and told him "Happy Festivus." They started talking about her some and he says "yeah, I actually just went out with her a few nights ago." My heart broke into a million pieces and luckily I had finished eating so I got up and went to the backroom and couldn't keep back the tears.
So it seems to me that he is using the fact that you had an emotional affair to have his own emotional affair.
