Merry Christmas Bright! I am glad you enjoyed your holiday. I'm also glad it went well and was comfortable with H. I don't have any advice on the friend thing, but I will say do what works for you, and only what works for you.
The new condo sounds great! Glad to hear you are enjoying it.
Me 48 H 46 S 11 M 2004 BD 8/13 H moved out 2/15 -live in the present, enjoy the beauty around and within you, explore your new future-