Okay, so there were sex issues with him. But how did the two of you interact before all of this stuff started? Way back before OM, what was your MR like? Did you speak and treat him with respect, or were you a b'tch? Did you show him admiration, and did he cherish you?
The way he is treating you since discovering OM, is it the same way he has acted in the past?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
