Coly, I am glad you had a nice Christmas! I think job said it perfectly, so I will add a big DITTO to that.

H is still giving you the gift of time; take this gift and use it! Learn to grow from this, and become that strong, confident, and independent woman you want to be. Then, then you can decide if this is the M you want. .... Hmmm, I smell a New Year's Resolution for Coly :-)

Trust me, doing this work on yourself while piecing is much harder!

Blu

“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela