Sandi2,

Thank you so much for responding! I know I should have hung up as soon as she started in. She was doing exactly as you discribed. As soon as I wouldn't give in she started screaming that I'm controlling! I believe it's too late for us to start over but I hope others listen to your advice. My situation has moved so fast and I expect her not to talk anymore now that lawyers are involved. At this point I don't see her ever having feelings except anger towards me.

It's been so hard not to call/text anything today for Christmas! It's been a horrible day for me. She's also deleted me from Snapchat today and liked several of MY friends Facebook posts. Almost like she's doing it on purpose to upset me.

I never thought the woman I feel in love with, purchased the house she wanted last year, gave her a 10k ring just in February, took on a very expensive honeymoon in Jane, can just walk away.... it blows my mind!!!

The pain is starting to turn me bitter