Ginger, I have noticed that married woman around me have been so intrigued by what I am doing in my "single life". They are envious. They get so excited when they give me suggestions. I went from people feeling pity, or being nosy, to trying to live vicariously through me. Of course, except for the dating there is nothing that I am doing that they couldn't do. It's funny though, how we put restrictions on ourselves when we are married. I am trying to plan mom's nights out for these unhappy but committed women. I wonder if things would have been different if I gave myself that sort of time when I was married.

I am really enjoying OLD. But I am still not yet looking for love--just for fun outings and new friends. I'm learning a lot about myself in this process and about the kind of men I am drawn to--and why. Maybe I should start sharing my stories like you and Doodle. I enjoy reading them.


40s 2teens M14Y
BD-10/12/13 rec-1/14
BD2-5/14 rec2-9/14
EA disc-10/14 4/15-BD 3 and triangulation ensues
Served with D6/15 MS forced to leave7/15
D agreement signed 8/16 final 5/17