I thought I would expand on long term planning so you can understand where I cam coming from.
That's cool, I get what you are saying about shared goals. To cut to the chase, most of these are her ideas, and it's not farming per se - it's ideas such as getting a few stables and maybe doing a bit of a small livery business, or kennels or such. Nothing firmed up yet.
I'm all for it, having a bit more land and doing something useful with it, and would happily support W doing this... BUT, it won't necessarily be cheap to invest in a business and that was my concern, more to lose if it all goes wrong... not a positive attitude, I know.
anyway, meant to post this yesterday, didn't get the peace and quiet to finish it. Have as good a Christmas Day as you can. Enjoy the time with the kids. That's what I'm focusing on today.
Peace
-- Me: 47 WW: 35 SS: 17 D: 5 T: 7 yrs Engaged: 2 yrs OEA confirmed: August 17 2016 ongoing since April 2016. OEA continues (with occasional breaks) BD2 - W says will visit OM in Jan 18