She called, I knew I shouldn't answer but i did. She went off on me over and over about how I'm being controlling and not helpful on things she's asked about. So much hate and anger... I thought after not talking for several weeks she would have calmed down. I just don't understand why??
Why would you listen to her berating you? Anger is a symptom of a wayward wife. The only thing you can expect from her is illogic behavior. I wish H's of a WW would realize he is hurting the possibility of R, by standing there and allowing her to verbally vomit on him. Don't argue with her, but don't take what she says. Hang up, walk away, etc. She doesn't get to treat you badly just b/c you happen to be married.
Time to stand up and stop taking the bullying.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
