I took mine off a week after I found out about the affair and found out she went out with the guy again. It no longer symbolized a marriage for me so it went away. The wife had taken hers off long before and when I noticed I talked to her about it and said things like oh you single now, etc. She put it back on for awhile and then took it off again when I found out about the affair.


Me:39
WW: 39
Kids: 11,8,4
Married: 15 years
Together 17 years
PA discovered November 2016
Separated living in same house - ended 1/2017
Separated, kids in house, taking turns staying in house