I am feeling v low because I can't find a single person I know who says I shouldn't give up hope. Everyone I know is saying it's done, totally dead in the water, can't you see he left you ages ago etc... I'm having to keep my DB-ing efforts secret because everyone is so fed up with me. In my desperation I even went to see a priest and even he told me to give up!
I know I have to detach and GAL. Which is what I'm working on. And I know I should be doing it only for myself because there are no guarantees he will ever return.
If you've a story about how you've come back from the absolute brink, I would love to hear it. Actually, I think I'm way over the cliff's edge already, just free falling now : (
Apart from letting him go, is there anything I can do to make things better between us? At the moment he's sending me pics of our son but no messages and I'm just sending 'Thanks' back every other day or so.
