I am so glad that everything went well. I hope you enjoyed yourself! Your wife was checking you out and remembering the past holidays. Sounds like she may have been enjoying herself as well. Maybe she had some clarity and will come to realize what she's missing out on. Time will tell.
I think you did a great job of keeping yourself in check and not grabbing her and taking her outside. The wink is something she'll remember and smile about.
Keep up the good work. You will learn that song...practice makes perfect! Enjoy the holidays!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.