BrightNOW ... which I love btw ... I"m glad that your foot doesn't require surgery and is healing. I understand how the setbacks sometimes take longer than we'd like to move past. I suppose we just need to keep moving, even if at a snail's pace, and not lose faith.
I'm glad you had a nice time with your friends last night. I don't really know what to say about H's behavior. It's nice that he stayed and interacted. I guess I would take this time as an opportunity to show how much you've dropped the rope and are moving forward with your life. I think that's done by just having the same wonderful time you'd have if he wasn't there. So, regardless of future interactions over the next several days, enjoy yourself to the fullest, be authentically the wonderful BrightNOW that you are, and have a beautiful Christmas.
xoxoxoxoxo {{{{{hugs}}}}}
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver