I know this time of year is difficult for most of us here. The festive season tends to enhance/accentuate what we have. So if that is a lousy R/M it can feel all that much worse. I know this is true, so wish all of those struggling to dig deep. Ye will get through this hard time .

Make the most of this festive season and strive to enjoy it as much as possible. Look towards the new year and strive to make it a good one. That is achieved by your actions/goals so focus on that.

Best wishes everyone and happy Christmas.

R 25 years
M 14 years
S11 & S13
Working on it alone since Oct 2014
M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years)
Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr.
Next R chat Aug'17
Still together