It is about focus on you. The reason you are here is because of you both. However, IMHO, the reason you stay in this sitch is due to WW attempting to keep you there. On the hook as such.
Just get off the hook. Do your thing. Get back to what YOU are. For a while she has taken your personal power. Don't let her carry on doing that. You must find your own mojo again. THIS is the key.
Yes you can call it dropping the rope, GAL, detach etc. But it is more simple. Just be you. You have not been for a while.
Enjoy the time be the man chap!
Surfer.
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