Anyone have any advice if I am trying the LRT if I am supposed to allow her to do things for me. Examples the last two days she had actually asked if I needed things when she was going to the store like food items for holiday parties I am going to or gifts that I need for people. Prior to this week she hasn't offered anything and I definately have not offered. I went to the store the other night and she did ask me to get two food items, and I did since I was going there. But she has asked me to fix something on her car and I have refused to do that since TS not a safety concern for the kids, it's just annoying to her. I am trying to stay dark with her unless it's about the kid, but she seems to be trying to talk to me more lately.


Me:39
WW: 39
Kids: 11,8,4
Married: 15 years
Together 17 years
PA discovered November 2016
Separated living in same house - ended 1/2017
Separated, kids in house, taking turns staying in house