She replied again asking if I was planning on going to her dad's family party tonight. I asked what her opinion was on the party and she said that I am very welcome. She said "we would all like it...if you are comfortable".
As for the stockings that she and I usually do...they are usually filled with small personal gifts...Santa also stops by VS every year and fills her stocking with new women's unmentionables. I think that that is out for this year, but I have missed shopping for them. Might just stick with candy, chap stik, and maybe something small. Already helped the kids purchase something for their mother and will have it taken over to her condo on Christmas Day.
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
Are you going to the party? I hope you feel comfortable enough to go. Evidently she doesn't appear to mind if you go. It would be a good time to show her the new and improved you w/all of you self confidence, etc.
I think the stocking stuffers you mentioned are great little gifts. They are useful and not very personable at all. Yes, I agree, the unmentionables should be out this year. There is always next year...if she wakes up and reconciles w/you.
If you decide to go to the party, have fun and be yourself.
Because she kind of said that "we" would like you there, I will probably go. I didn't have any other plans.
I will start a new thread. THX
Me 49 W46 T25 M22 S22 D18 S13 W had EA Apr-Jul 2016 Dropped Bomb 7/9/16 ILYBINILWYA HER DIVORCE IS FINAL...8/18/17 Dropping the rope to SURVIVE & THRIVE!!!
Go and enjoy yourself. If it gets to be too much for you, politely excuse yourself and go home...but I think you will enjoy being w/family.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
