Help - boundaries. Am I doing th ewrong thing?

[Surfer]

Woke_Up

This all looks positive. Zero expectations my friend.

there's fine line between trying to be a better person, / doing 180's and enabling cake eating by the WS.

There is but be careful with "cake eating". There's a fine line between not enabling boundary crossing (which need to be clearly defined for you and WS) and letting your 'ego' get in the way. There is no room for 'ego' in all this. It's a tread wary walk which we all fall foul of from time to time. After all, we are human!

Take care. I hope you are able to spend some quality time together over the festive period.

Surfer.