Hi Painter! I came to find you, too. I like your new neighborhood. I think I'll be finding my way over here eventually, as I'm definitely in the surviving and kind-of-thriving mode these days. The D is a foregone conclusion and a good thing at this point.
Sorry to hear that STBXH is still lying to you, but as with my own STBXH - how do you know when they are lying? Their lips are moving. Or they moved in the past.
((((((((((Painter))))))))))
H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16