I have to agree with your forum name. 2016 has definitely sucked for me. Yes. The LRT DOES work. Deploy it NOW and stick to it. Detach, 180 and GAL. You can't "love" him out of this mess he has created. Now is the time to focus on you. If you want to save your M, you have to let him go. It sounds backwards but it does work. Dont put up with his BS. He's got some serious issues if he has had 4 A's. That is a problem that HE needs to fix. You can't fix it for him. Only you can decide if you've "had enough." If you want to try and save the M, this method works. But he's got to do his part. Its great that he's interested in MC but right now, believe NONE of what he says. Its his ACTIONS that matter. And even then, take those with a grain of salt until he has proven that he is a changed man. The one piece of advice that I can give is DONT take him back too quickly. Make him work to regain his place in your MR.
Me: 48 y/o W: 47 y/o Together: > 20 yrs BD: Dec '15, then S 2nd BD: Mar '16, then I filed for D April '16: started piecing
