I'm so sorry for the situation you are in. I went ahead and moved your post to Newcomers so that more people will see it and be able to offer support.
At this point you can't believe any of what he says and only half of what he does. Focus on being the best mom and person that only a fool would leave. The key is to do it for yourself, not him.
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