If it were me, I would have the music playing, and all the Christmas smells in the house, and I would be at the peak of showing my polished and fun personality. I would make it the best day of the year. Hopefully, she will leave with all those memories in her head, and knowing it was the last time......and that she gave it away. (Of course, you don't say any of this to her). There is absolutely no guarantee it will affect her at all. I am just saying that if you carry through with the plans, make it great and don't go around with your heart on your sleeve. Go into the bathroom and bury your head into the towels and cry, if you have to, but don't let her see.
Sandi2--Thanks for this Christmas advice--very helepful, as always.
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
