Mantras:

LET IT GO.
LET IT GO.
LET IT GO.
LET IT GO.
LET IT GO.
LET IT GO.
LET IT GO.

I DESERVE BETTER.
I DESERVE BETTER.
I DESERVE BETTER.
I DESERVE BETTER.
I DESERVE BETTER.
I DESERVE BETTER.
I DESERVE BETTER.

THEY WILL BE OK.
THEY WILL BE OK.
THEY WILL BE OK.
THEY WILL BE OK.
THEY WILL BE OK.
THEY WILL BE OK.
THEY WILL BE OK.

Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final