Like you I am new to these boards and to this process of DBing.
I have been separated from my husband for one year and asked him to leave our home after I learned of his infidelity. I actually filed for D in May of this year hoping it might put fear in him that if he didn't change I would leave him. I can say that nothing in regard to the D has happened, meaning no other paperwork on his end has been filed. But, we also have not made progress in anything....just stuck in this limbo.
I am so new here and to this process that I don't feel like I am in a position to give anyone advice, but what I have learned is that I have to stop doing things for him, or to get a response out of him. I am learning....very slowly I might add....that I need to do things to make me better and hope that by me becoming better there is a chance that we can become better. I took a long look at myself and didn't like the person I was, so how in the world would my H like me? It's been very hard GAL and doing things for me but I'm doing it.
