I moved out because I had a place to go and my wife did not without having to give up our animals for adoption. Her parents said she could not bring them there because they already foster dogs and it would be too much. That combined with our house was rented from her parents, it made sense for me to be the one to move out.
Wife texted me today saying she found some more of my stuff as she was cleaning and asked if I wanted to come get it. On my way there, she asked me if I could help her move furniture so I replied I would.
When I got there, I told her that if she filed for divorce now, I would not sign. In the state of PA, if it is a contested divorce, she must wait 1 year after separation to file without my consent.
She argued that she could not afford the house on her own, and cannot find another place to live or get assistance because of my income. Mind you, she lost her job because her affair was with one of her clients. I have offered to continue paying for the house but she has refused. She is very angry right now that I will not sign, did I do the right thing?
