hi Bttrfly, Peach, Roist and Bright.

thanks for your best wishes to my D14 on her health.

I'll start with her since she is my priority.

She is doing well. Not one episode since she figured out the triggers. We are on the fast track at the hospital so I got a few calls yesterday and today assuring me that there is no danger. D14 will be perfectly fine. No rush to operate and we will see the doctors in the New year. Feeling a lot better now.

I messaged XW with the details even though she doesn't ask for them. I've been told by many to not update her at all. If she doesn't ask don't update. I only do it because I don't want to be called out as the guy that doesn't update the mother of the D's. Maybe 2017 I will just end that thinking and let her do all the asking before I update. There you go my first resolution.

Well I messaged her the details. No comment on any of it. Only to tell me shes going to her mom's in Florida for a couple of days with OM. That she didn't get anything for the girls for Xmas and will probably email them a message later on when she has time.

So it will be quiet and peaceful for Xmas with her out of the country. That's all I wanted :-)

Wishing you all a merry Christmas, happy Hanuka, Joyeux Noel, and all the best for the New Year. I think many new chapters will start for many of us.

Irish


M51
XW43 (38 at bd)
BD1 MAY 30 2015
BD2 JUNE 25 2015 by text
moved out Aug 2 2015
left both Daughters 13 and 15 (now 18-20)
Her divorce Final July 26 2016
Last time she saw her kids Aug 2 2015