Thank you both for the advice. I am starting to realize that I do try to control most situations. It is something I really need to work on changing.
I was also diagnosed with Generalized Anxiety Disorder a few years ago. I really get stuck on something and cant let it go. It plays constantly in mind. I am going to counseling and take an sri med.
My mom found a marriage retreat close to us in February, She texted my wife to see if she would like to go. She said she would go. Not going to try to read to much into it but its a glimpse of hope. She also got up this morning and put on her wedding rings. Not something she normally does during the week. She says they hurt her hands when she works out.
